I don't mean the actual getting married part. That part we could do right now with a Justice of the Peace. But all the little stuff at a wedding is ridiculous. We need lights, but the light guys can't set up until we have the tents up, and the tent guys need to know where the music equipment is going, and the music guys want to know how many mic cables to bring, and I have no idea because I'm not the one singing.
There's food to be catered, dishes to be washed (Kat and I spent yesterday washing 96 place settings to get them ready for the wedding), guests to be housed, rings to be bought (I got mine yesterday and it looks awesome), spa days to attend, bachelor parties to blur through, etc. etc. etc.
And somewhere in between all that stuff we are supposed to have a good time.